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Find Fun Right Around the Corner and Save (on gas and money)

On Saturday my husband and I went down a Resident Appreciation Luau at our apartment complex. In addition to getting a free lunch of grilled chicken & hot dogs, my husband was one of the lucky winners of a door prize. He won a $25 gas car….not exactly a gold mine, considering it cost $40 to fill up my car this morning, but it is 25 dollars more than what we had when we went down there, and that’s something to cheer about.

If you’re like us, you’re probably saving money on gas by simply not going anywhere. Luckily, my husband is doing 2 directed study classes this summer, which means that he does his assignments and meets with this professors one on one, on his own schedule. So he’s only having to drive over there once every two weeks. And he’s actually in the process of finding a job that’s closer to our home, as his delivery business has become less profitable as gas prices have gone up and the delivery rates of the company have works for have stayed the same.

So we basically we drive when we have to do, to go to the store and run errands; otherwise, we’ve been staying home. We’re eating out less and spending less on extra clothes and entertainment that are not neccessities. But we don’t like to let gas prices keep us from having fun either, so what to do? Well, the beach is about 30 minutes away from our home, and it’s totally free, so we’ve gone down there a few times for a little r&r. We also enjoy playing disc golf, so we sometimes go down to the park and do that for free.

So while we may not be able to directly control gas prices (& my husband and I couldn’t possibly consume less), we’ve been able to find fun activities that are either free or cost very little, to sort of make up for the high fuel costs.

I think a lot of times we live in an area for so long that we forget what’s right in our back yard, and we miss out on a lot of fun activities. Think of what you have in your own area: Perhaps there’s a museum you can take your kids to, or you could take the kids to the local pool or skating rink or have a picnic in the park. When I was a kid, we had a park in our area where you could feed the fish & ducks, and they had a little train to ride, putt putt golf, and other activities for kids. I took my neice and nephew there last summer, and they loved it. Or go to annual festivals that are held in your area or free concerts in the park.

You can also check out your local library. They feature summer reading programs for kids, and they often have puppet shows and other activities scheduled for kids during the summer. Local civic centers may also have activities that you can sign your kids up for, for a modest fee.

Check the internet and ask around, and I’m sure you’ll find a whole wide world of activities right in your own back yard.

Our New Additions: Rebel & Dixie

I just had to do a post on our new kitty cats. My mom’s cat had 4 kittens at the end of March, and we decided to take a couple off of her hands. I was unsure about getting them at first because we live in an apartment, and I’ve never had an inside cat, but my husband convinced me that I’d love it. So I picked out the gray cat. Then on the night we came over to get him, we were watching them all play, and my husband convinced me that we really needed 2, because if we just took one, it would have nobody to play with. So he got his pick of the litter too. (I think he’s gone soft!)

So here are Rebel (left) and Dixie (right). As you know, we’re both into history. And my husband thought it would be funny to name the cat Johnny Reb because of his gray color. Then I suggested that we just call him Rebel for short. On the way home, were talking about what to call the other cat, and I suggested that we call her Dixie/Dixie Belle. Ya know, so their names would go together.
They love to play together and fight all over the house. Though in this picture, they almost look like their sharing a laugh and a hug. Dixie’s a lot smaller than Rebel, but she’s feisty and fearless.

Dixie is the ultimate lap kitty. Whenever she gets tired, she finds the nearest lap to sit in and get petted, and if you aren’t sitting down, she will follow you around, stare at you, and give you the “broken meow” until she can convince you to do what she wants.

She’s also just a little bit stingy. She likes to take the toys away from Rebel, and the other night my husband was petting Rebel, and she swatted at his hands, and then laid across Rebel, so that she could be petted instead of him. But she’s a very playful and sweet Kitty too.

Here she is kissing my husband. Yes, she is doing this voluntarily. Sometimes my husband puckers up first, and other times she actually climbs on him and starts licking his lips. It is so cute and funny. If I can get a good video of it, I’ll post it here.

Rebel “loves” the camera. Well, maybe he doesn’t love it, but he does seem very photogenic. He was the Mama’s boy of the litter and kind of a “scaredy cat.” He was often found hiding in a corner. In fact, he was terrified the night we brought him home with us, but he’s adjusted very well. He seems to love it here, and he is becoming quite the adventurer.

When Rebel’s not fighting with Dixie or playing Kitty Soccer, he is pretty much a self-entertainer. Here he shows us his self-entertaining skills, playing with a toy mouse. He’s also fascinated by books, newspapers, and the golf channel.

Here he is sleeping. He’s not as much of a lap kitty as his sister, but he does like to be close to someone when he goes to sleep. Tonight he actually went to sleep with his paws wrapped around my husband’s finger. Isn’t he sweet?

Well, that’s all for now. Sorry if you don’t like cats, but I just love these guys and had to share them!

Menu Plan Monday for June 16


My menu for the end of the week is kind of “up in the air.” I’m supposed to go out of town this weekend. I have a dental appointment back home, that is scheduled for next Monday, but if decide to go I’d have to leave on Friday, because Saturday traffic is unpredictable, and on Sunday the traffic will be crazy, as people will be driving home from the beach (the same direction I’d be coming from). I also have some other business to tend to back home (though it doesn’t have to be done this week).

The only thing is that my husband can’t go this time, and I hate making the drive by myself. I’ve done it several times before, but I don’t like doing it. Plus, I hate being away for a long weekend, because it always puts me behind. So I’m still thinking about whether I want to go for sure, or whether I’d rather cancel my appointment and go another time. Either way, we’ll probably just go out to eat this weekend or have something simple like sandwiches or hamburgers.

Here’s what else I’m planning:

Monday – Leftovers from Last week
Tuesday – Chicken, cooked w/ chili powder & topped with cheese. With rice, beans, and nachos.
Wednesday – Hamburger steak w/ gravy, mashed potatoes, peas, and biscuits
Thursday – Eating out – probably pizza
Friday-Sunday – not sure

Have a great week!

Recipe of the Week: Banana Cream Trifle

For this week’s recipe I wanted to feature a trifle. These are great for any time of the year, but I think they’re especially great for a cool summer time treat. I’m used to seeing either a chocolate trifle or a strawberry trifle, but this one offers a little something different…it’s like banana pudding with a twist. The recipe comes from Betty Crocker. They suggest using a frozen bread loaf, but you may prefer to bake your own. And if you don’t do homemade bread, then you can make it easily from a mix. Pillsbury has a line of quick bread mixes that are very good, and Martha White muffin mixes are great as well. If you love banana, this one is a must try!

1 package (4-serving size) vanilla instant pudding and pie filling mix
2 cups cold milk
1 package (16 ounces) frozen banana breakfast quick bread loaf, thawed and cut into 1-inch cubes (6 cups) (or use banana nut bread or muffin mix and bake as directed)
3 medium bananas, sliced
1 container (8 ounces) frozen whipped topping, thawed

1. Make pudding mix in large bowl as directed on package for pudding, using 2 cups milk.
2. Layer half of the bread cubes, pudding, banana slices and whipped topping in 2-quart serving bowl; repeat.
3. Cover and refrigerate until serving but no longer than 24 hours. Store covered in refrigerator.

My Tip – Southern Banana pudding wouldn’t be the same without Nila wafers, and I think they’d also make a great addition to the recipe. You can layer them with the rest of the ingredients and then end with them on top. Yum!

Tips & Must Haves for the Perfect Summer Party, Part 2

As promised, here is a list of food and drink tips for your barbecues and backyard summer parties.

  • Never underestimate the amount of time it will take to grill. If you are having a lot of people over, do the majority of the grilling early so that it will be ready as the guests arrive.
  • If you’re having a lot of guests, you may want to ask a friend to bring over an extra grill for you to use. (and if someone asks you if you need help grilling or cooking, don’t be too proud to accept their assistance)
  • Do your cooking the night before in order to avoid having a hot kitchen on the day of the event, and this way, on the day of the party you can focus on some last minute tidying and placing your food out to serve.
  • Avoid making too many casseroles and heavy foods. Instead try salads, fresh fruit, and chips & veggies with dip.
  • Also, try some simple side items like mac & cheese, baked beans, cole slaw, corn on the cob, and potato salad.
  • For dessert, keep it light. Trifles are easy to make, and they look and taste great. Banana pudding is another great choice, or try a little key lime or lemon icebox pie. Homemade ice cream would also be a big hit.
  • Be sure that you have plenty of ice on hand.
  • You can never have enough drinks either. Be sure you have plenty of ice tea and bottled water. Also, have a good selection of regular and diet drinks. Lemonade or punch is also great for a hot summer day. And consider serving Kool Aid, Powerade, or juice boxes to the kids.
  • Be sure that you have plenty of coolers so that you can keep the drinks on ice, so that they won’t fill up your refrigerator, and so that everyone can grab a drink at his/her convenience.
  • To save money, make it a potluck dinner.
  • Decide ahead of time if you would like to serve alcohol at the party so that you can put it in your budget. I was reading a tip in a magazine that suggested to make one specialty drink for your guests like pina coladas or some other cocktail. Other than that, if you’re having a backyard barbecue, most people will bring their alcohol if they desire.
  • While you may be tempted to leave the food out so that people can come back for seconds, it would be better to put the food away in the fridge or in a cooler, in order to prevent spoiling. Just let your guests know what you’re doing so that they can get seconds if they like. Also, consider having your buffet inside the house, to further prevent spoiling and to keep bugs out of the food.
  • If you’re going to serve outside. Salads, fruits, and dessert items should remain inside until time to serve so that they can maintain the proper temperature.
    If you’re not much of a cook, try going to local resturant to have your party catered. You can get a large pan of pork barbecue, ribs, or wings & chicken fingers for everyone at a fairly good price. And you can sometimes get a good deal on side items too.
  • Even if you’re not doing a potluck, someone will most likely call and ask if they can bring something. While a simple “No thank you” is an okay response, most of the time these people will bring something anyway, so you may as well suggest something simple for them to bring, (ie – a dessert of their choice, chips, or a package of rolls) And if you’re grilling out, don’t be surprised if someone brings over some extra meat to put on the grill.


Tips & Must Haves for the Perfect Summer Party, Part 1

It takes proper planning and organization to have a successful party at any time of the year. But no matter how much planning we do, there’s always a chance that we’ll forget something. So I’m making a list of tips and must haves for your summer parties and backyard barbecues. Part one will have some general tips, and part 2 will having some tips concerning food and drinks.

  • Try to place chairs in a shaded area under some trees, or set up a big tent, canopy, or an umbrella to provide shade.
  • Make sure you have plenty of chairs. It’s much better to have extra chairs than to not have enough. Consider renting some chairs, or check out the selection at the local dollar store. Or ask some of your guests to bring extra chairs to the party.
  • If your party will be held outside, purchase a couple of electric fans to create a nice breeze.
  • Be sure to turn on ceiling fans and turn the thermostat down in the house for people who want to sit inside. Homes are always hotter when there’s a lot of people inside, especially if you’ve been cooking. Not to mention, people will be going in and out the door, letting the hot air in.
  • Be sure to purchase plenty of ice and have plenty of drinks on hand, especially bottled water, tea, or lemonade/punch. I also recommend Kool Aid, Powerade, or juice boxes for the kids.
  • Use Off candles, mosquito coils, and other repellants to keep bugs away.
  • As the party host, it is your obligation to have things on hand that your guests may need. Make sure that you have the following: Off bug repellent, OTC pain relievers, sunscreen, band-aids and other first aid items, Benadryl/corizone cream for bug bites, and a sting kit.
  • If you’re having a family party, be sure that you have a kick ball or some other recreational equipment for the kids to play with so that the adults can talk.

Fun Outdoor Party Games & Activities for Kids

As of late, I’ve been making a lot of lists on here, and here’s another. Summer time is such a great time for kids to have parties…think school field day, VBS recreation time, and the ever popular end of the year school party. Even if you’re on a budget, you can still plan a fun party for your kids. There are a number of games and activities that you can plan that are cheap or cost nothing at all. Here’s a list of ideas for you…

Volleyball
Badmitten
Softball/Baseball
Kickball
Soccer
Flag football
Capture the Flag
Scavenger Hunt
Horseshoes
Ring Toss
Croquet
Frisbee
Basketball
Flashlight tag or freeze tag
Dodge Ball
Four Square
Red Rover
Create a obstacle course
Hide & Seek
Red light green light
Mother, May I
Simon Says
Disc golf or Frisbee golf
Water balloon fight
Water gun fight
Watermelon seed spitting contest
Slip & Slide
Inflatable jump toys or mazes
Sack race
Three-legged race
Wheelbarrow race
Parachute
Tug of War
Potato & Spoon race
Jump the Brook
Chinese jump rope
Jump rope contest
Ladder golf
Bean bag toss
lawn bowling

And here’s a few links for you….

Pool Games
Pool toys & games
Water Games
99 Days of Summer Games
Recreation & field day equipment

Menu Plan Monday for June 9

Monday – Roast beef & gravy, mashed potatoes, green beans, biscuits
Tuesday -breakfast for supper – pancakes, bacon, eggs, grits
Wednesday – grilled chicken salad
Thursday – Ham & Cheese pasta (courtesy of Laura at orgjunkie)
Friday – Pizza & bread sticks
Saturday – Creamy Chicken Enchiladas
Sunday – Beef stroganoff

For other recipes and menu ideas, visit orgjunkie.com.

Recipe of the Week: Under the Sea Cake

Here’s a really cute cake for summer from Kraft. They also have a recipe for video for a similar recipe called Dive On in Cake. Kids of all ages will love these.

1 pkg. (2-layer size) white cake mix, any flavor
2 cups thawed COOL WHIP Whipped Topping, divided
3/4 cup boiling water
1 pkg. (4-serving size) JELL-O Brand Berry Blue Flavor Gelatin
2 cups ice cubes
10 NILLA Wafers, crushed
2 chewy fruit snack rolls
15 jelly beans
4 TEDDY GRAHAMS Honey Graham Snacks
decorating gel
7 bite-size fish-shaped chewy fruit snacks

PREPARE and bake cake batter in greased foil-lined 13×9-inch baking pan as directed on package. Cool completely. Invert cake onto large platter; remove pan and foil. Use a serrated knife to cut 1/2-inch-wide strip off each side of cake. Cut each strip in half lengthwise; set aside.
SPREAD cake with 1-1/2 cups of the whipped topping. Stack cake strips around outside edges of cake to make a rim. Spread rim with remaining 1/2 cup whipped topping. Refrigerate until ready to use.

STIR boiling water into dry gelatin mix in large bowl at least 2 min. until completely dissolved. Add ice cubes; stir until gelatin begins to thicken. Remove any unmelted ice. Pour thickened gelatin into center of cake as shown in photo. Refrigerate 4 hours or until gelatin is set. Decorate with remaining ingredients to resemble an aquarium. Store in refrigerator.

Party Themes, Decorations, & Supplies

Summer is a great time for kid & adult parties and family reunions. Decorations, party favors, and a theme can make the party very fun, especially for kids.

Some popular themes include:

Patriotic
Hawaiin Luau
Under the Sea
Beach
Flip Flops
Safari/Jungle
Western/Cowboy
Fiesta/South of the Border
Pirates
Finding Nemo
Little Mermaid
Lion King
Olympics
Sports

You can buy party supplies & decorations for fairly cheap at party supply store, the dollar store, or online, and you can make great use of every day items for decorations, as well.

Consider decorating with the following:

Flowers
Palm Trees
Flower Leis
Beach Balls
“Donut”/”Lifesaver” Floats
Strings of lights
Balloons & streamers
Sand buckets & shovels
treasure chest
beaded curtains

Here a few links some summer party ideas & supplies:

Celebrate Express – They have supplies for various party themes, including Hula, Flip Flop Fun, Sunny Days, Luau, Ocean, etc.

MN International – Supplies for a variety of party themes from Patriotic to Luau, Safari, and Western Themes

Shindigzparty Blog – Party ideas & tips for just about any party theme

Oriental Trading – A ton of summer party supplies

Oriental Trading – Fourth of July Party supplies